Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Week 4 - Update on Rumors and Lies

This week's quote is...

"People will always spread rumors about you. People will always cause you drama involving you; but the only thing you can do is rise above them, and smile." - Unknown

So update on last week's blog post.

The story keeps changing. This is another reason to not listen to rumors because the facts can change. People don't remember the exact words so they change it or change it to make the situation worse so that it would be more fun to spread around.

This is another reason to not listen or spread rumors. It's mean, and obviously gives you more enemies than friends. You could also lose friends from spreading/starting rumors. Who knows if you'll spread rumors about them?!

It could also be the person you tell it to or received the information from, they understood it wrong. Like they didn't get what was told and thought of it a different way.

Sorry for not posting Friday! :O Here's a bonus quote for not posting on time!

"Be careful of rocks." -Liela Laurynessa

This could mean many things as in the rocks we know it as or the bumps in life we have to face or the challenges I like to call them. 

Everyone has to be careful of tripping over rocks, big or small. It can injure you, but you just need to remember to give yourself time to heal, and then get back up and do your stuff.

See you in a few days :)

❀Liela


Friday, July 25, 2014

Week 3 - Rumors and Lies

Happy Friday! TGIF because I get to make another blog post!! YAY!

So this week's quote is...

"A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes." - Mark Twain

So today, actually, my grandma asked me to be completely honest with her. I agreed, and then she asked if I had a boyfriend.

I was in shock. Where did she even get that question?! I responded with "No." I haven't even gotten a boyfriend before.

She said that my cousin, who I was close to, told her mom that I had a boyfriend and I was keeping it a secret from everyone. Then her mom spread it to other members of the family on my dad's side that lived elsewhere. It spread there and then my cousin ( a different one) told my grandma. 

This just proves that rumors fly, really fast.  My aunt chose to believe her daughter, and not even ask me, and then she spread it to others. 

Wow. Someone who I kind of trusted back stabbed me. 

Rumors fly around faster than the truth. Gossip is just more fun to carry around, but the problem with it is that it was hurtful. It was a lie.

So guys, don't start rumors. Don't spread it. Unless the person wants you to let the world know, don't say anything.

I'm letting you know a real-life experience to show you that it is real. It does happen. And it's weird because family isn't supposed to stab you like that. 

But sometimes people can get jealous. Some people can get mean. Some people just don't like you. 

My cousin (the rumor starter) is usually compared to me. So maybe that's why. Maybe she said it to bring down my rep to make herself feel better. Maybe none of these reasons are true. 

So please don't bully people and be good to them. 

Tomorrow, I'm going to ask her, and I'll let you guys know below this sentence. (I want to make sure that it's not true.)

See you tomorrow/next week! 

♫ Liela

Friday, July 18, 2014

Week 2 - You're Beautiful, No Matter What They Say

Happy Friday! And Friday means a new blog post! :D

This week's quote is...

"Your imperfections make you beautiful and they make you who you are so just be yourself  for who you are and just keep on going."-Demi Lovato

So this week, I have noticed that a lot of girls are claiming that they're ugly, and they have so many insecurities, but then they are drop-dead gorgeous.

Like, I honestly feel the same way. I personally think that my looks aren't the best even though when I like "TBH" posts to get one, people say differently. And so I come to the conclusion that I don't think we are supposed to like our own bodies. We were made the way we were so that we can learn to like ourselves in our own skin. We can learn about how it's not about the outside and it's about what you are like inside.

And I know that we were all told that as kids and as we are growing up. We are only told that so much because it's true. I mean, why would we be told something if it's not true? They'd be wasting their time.

But seriously, we're all beautiful and why would you want to be the same as someone else? I'm pretty sure that one person was different somehow, and others followed. That's kind of how style works. One person dresses differently, and someone else thinks it's cool so they do it too. Then the same thing happens and voila.

We are all different people. We need our differences, and not one thing is pretty or beautiful. I believe that everyone is different, yes, but that doesn't make different bad. Different is good sometimes because that's how we can tell each other apart. Different is what's unique about you, not what's unique about someone you're not.

So basically,

"You're beautiful, just the way you are no matter what they say." 

Until next Friday.

Check out my books on Wattpad, link in my profile information and check out my drawings on my Instagram : @swt1princess

★Liela

Friday, July 11, 2014

Week 1- July 7

This week's quote is...

"Your feelings so are important to write down, to capture, to remember,  because today you'll be heartbroken, but tomorrow you'll be in love again." ~Taylor Swift

My love life hasn't been all that exciting. I'm one of those kids that don't get a crush until they become teens. I'm 14, even though I don't like to think of myself as a teen.

So I actually got my first crush this year in like,  mid-May. According to his friends, he liked me first. I never told anyone that I liked him. My friends kind of figured it out. The feeling is so amazing, and I can't stop thinking of him.

But you will probably hear more Crush quotes because he's all I ever think about anymore.

He has a girlfriend, and it hurts. That's why I am writing this blog, and I'm actually starting a book called "Crush, Maybe?" for Wattpad.

I also find it easier to write when your feelings are affecting your mind. If it's like a lot of emotions, I like to write it to vent to myself. Maybe it will help you too. :)

So thanks for reading my first actual post. :)

See you next week!

。◕‿◕。 Liela Laurynessa

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I think I'll have my blog be based on my life, and things I have learned throughout the week. I think I'll add quotes and everything too. So expects some soon!

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❤ Liela